you can have it all.

I was told when I was 15 that as you grow up from a child we really are gradually bedeviled to dream better, to be more realistic in our goals and to be something, and frankly that is every reason why we can never have it all. I’m 16 now but I know as children our greatest times of elation, euphoria and pleasure come naturally because everything is perfect and is exactly how we want to be. And I guess the difference between then and now, is us. Simply just you. Who you want, who you love, what you love and in all of this it’s all what you truly want.

The truth in what we truly desire begins in our fantasies and as far as the definition of fantasy goes, it actually becomes the closest, if not, is, our actuality and future. Every idea you don’t spark or drive is a path and lifestyle you skipped and when your options run out and are narrowed to commitments that don’t satisfy our existence, we begin to believe that we are made for nothing.

Rihanna. It’s in the way she sings, the way she carries herself, and the way she upholds her value. The way she talks, the way she walks, the way nothing can stop her and within that it radiates outside her and makes her 100x more gorgeous and luminates her alpha-female aura. Despite her upbringing, and past, the person she decides to be outweighs and makes her the icon and beaut she is.

The iconic personalities from across industries such as Marilyn Monroe, Muhammad Ali, Zendaya. Ralph Lauren, Princess Diana, Justin Bieber, Tupac, Britney Spears, Naomi Campbell, Elon Musk and best believe Kylie Jenner all found success in their own brand and became their wildest dreams despite the ‘normal’ or ‘general’.

Don’t be fool with the icons list that you may think goes on. The biggest mistake you can make is getting too comfortable and looking like fool. Khloe Kardashian, Madison Beer, Nikita Dragun. You get where it goes.

But nevertheless, it’s stopping at no one and building a yourself, and you’ll find people who will follow. Don’t stop yourself. Don’t even pause yourself at all. And don’t ever afraid to fail. Surprise yourself! Tell yourself a wild tale and follow upon it. It begins in the small things we want. The things that charge our confidence. Want to be an actress, bring character. Or want to start that business, create it.

Want to a mansion, get it.

Want to be flawless beaut, accentuate yourself.

You want to build an empire? build it.

Billionaire? make it.

If I was to ask you right now, what you want just like this list above, I would want you to finish the sentence and do it. Beginning from there, that’s the only way in life you can really have it all.